In this final episode of our “What I Wish I Knew” series, we’re taking a step back to reflect on advocacy—what it’s looked like for us over the years, what’s changed, and what we wish we understood earlier.
We talk honestly about the emotional weight of advocating for our kids with Down syndrome, the tension of speaking up in systems that don’t always listen, and the growth that comes from learning to trust your instincts.
From early parenting moments to IEP meetings and navigating social media, this conversation explores the complexity of advocacy—how it evolves, where it gets messy, and why it’s never just one moment, but a lifelong process.
We also dig into how advocacy has shifted in the age of social media—the connection it brings, but also the pressure, comparison, and confusion around what it’s supposed to look like.
If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed, unsure, or alone in advocating for your child, this episode offers perspective, honesty, and encouragement.
Why advocacy is unavoidable as a parent of a child with Down syndrome
Learning to trust your gut—even when “experts” disagree
The emotional reality of speaking up and pushing back
How advocacy evolves over time and gets more complex
Social media: connection, pressure, and comparison
Redefining what advocacy actually looks like
Advocacy isn’t about doing more or being louder—it’s about staying grounded in your “why,” trusting your instincts, and showing up for your child over time.
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🎧 More on Advocacy
Episode 101: Jalondra Davis on Race, Disability, & Advocacy https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-lucky-few/id1349646917?i=1000508421336
Episode 262: 45 Years of Advocacy — A Conversation with Kandi Pickard https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-lucky-few/id1349646917?i=1000660264316
Episode 17: Self Advocacy — Down Syndrome in DC (with Kayla McKeon) https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-lucky-few/id1349646917?i=1000425139176
Episode 172: Defining Ableism, Allyship & Advocacy + Redefining “Inclusion” (with Priya Lalvani) https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-lucky-few/id1349646917?i=1000574499987
Episode 256: Celebrating Motherhood, Advocacy, & Community (with Black Down Syndrome Association) https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-lucky-few/id1349646917?i=1000654745623
Throwback: Unlearning the Advocacy Language https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-lucky-few/id1349646917?i=1000504975552
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